5 Interesting Indian Superstitions And Customs Explained

One of the most intriguing parts of being in an interracial/intercultural marriage has been learning about my spouse’s cultural superstitions and customs.  In the African-American community, we uphold many of the superstitions and customs that are prevalent in America.  Such as? Superstitions And Customs I Grew Up With 1.) Don’t intentionally break a window or …

MULTICULTURAL WEDDING PLANNING: 10 EASY TIPS FOR CREATING A FUSION WEDDING

 MULTICULTURAL WEDDING PLANNING: 10 EASY TIPS FOR CREATING A FUSION WEDDING A question that we have been asked quite a bit is how did you fuse your cultures during your wedding(s)?   We had a Christian/American destination wedding  in St. Thomas, U.S.V.I., and an Indian wedding.  As many of you know, we did not originally …

A Love Story You Have To Read About To Believe

A Love Story You Have To Read About To Believe “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” -Maya Angelou About Meet Abhi and Nicole. Abhi is Indian, and he was born and raised in a very conservative Jain family in a small town …

THE REALITY OF BEING BIRACIAL: BLACK AND SOUTH ASIAN/BLINDIAN

THE REALITY OF BEING BIRACIAL:  BLACK AND SOUTH ASIAN/BLINDIAN An Interview with Sitara Abbas “One’s eyes serve as the windows to the world and one’s mind serves as the curtains to the windows. To be able to abdicate one’s biases and prejudices, emerging and embracing the beauty of what may not be akin, is to …

20 Amazing Multicultural Diwali Gift Ideas

 20 Amazing Multicultural Diwali Gift Ideas What Is Diwali? Diwali, aka Deepavali, is the festival of lights. In Hinduism, it exemplifies how only light can dispel darkness and commemorates good’s victory over evil. It is a time for reflection, celebration, and gift-giving (like New Years in the United States of America). It is an official holiday …

My First Karva Chauth As A Christian

  My First Karva Chauth As A Christian Newly Married My husband passed me the telephone and my mother-in-law transitioned from Hindi to English.  “Hi, Nikita how are you, it’s going to be Karva Chauth in 3 days.  Are you going to keep Karva Chauth for your husband?” “Karva Chauth”, I muttered, like a deer …

Interracial/Intercultural Marriage: Tamil-Canadian Woman And African-American Man

Interracial/Intercultural Marriage: Tamil-Canadian Woman And African-American Man About Us Melanie is Tamil-Canadian and Roland is African-American. They met in graduate school and were long distance for the first three years of their relationship.  After Roland proposed, Melanie moved to the United States.  Ironically, while Melanie hates spicy food, Roland loves spicy Tamil dishes.  They just …

5 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT SOUTH ASIANS/INDIANS DEBUNKED

5 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT SOUTH ASIANS/INDIANS DEBUNKED It’s almost humorous that I’m writing this post.  However, it has become justifiable.  And hopefully it will be eye opening for many of you that are curious and/or open to learning more about South Asian/Indian culture.  I know you must be thinking, say what?  What happened? BEING A MULTIRACIAL AND MULTICULTURAL FAMILY …